By Elizabeth Kirkeby

Parents Coping with Autism

Being a parent of a child with autism can be an incredibly challenging experience. Navigating the complex world of therapy and treatment options, dealing with behavior challenges, and coping with the stress and isolation that can come with raising a child with autism are just some of the struggles that parents may face.

One of the most significant struggles parents may face is the constant uncertainty and unpredictability of autism. Children with autism can have sudden outbursts, meltdowns, or other behavioral challenges that can be difficult to understand or manage, making it hard for parents to plan their days or even leave the house with their children. According to a study by the National Autistic Society, around 80% of parents of children with autism reported feeling isolated. This isolation can lead to feelings of loneliness and isolation for parents.

Despite these struggles, there are coping mechanisms that parents can use to help manage the stress and anxiety that can come with raising a child with autism. One of the most important is to find a support system, such as a support group for parents of children with autism. These groups can provide a safe space for parents to share their struggles and to find support and understanding from others who have been through similar experiences. According to an American Academy of Pediatrics study, parents who participated in support groups reported feeling less stressed and more informed about their child’s condition.

Another essential coping mechanism is self-care. This may mean setting aside time to do things you enjoy or simply relaxing and unwinding. It’s also vital to ensure you get enough sleep, eat healthily, and exercise regularly. According to an article by Psychology Today, regular exercise can reduce stress and improve mood.

Additionally, seeking professional help such as therapy or counseling can be beneficial for parents as it can help parents work through their feelings and thoughts and find ways to cope with the stress and challenges of raising a child with autism. According to the National Institute  of Mental Health, therapy can help parents develop the skills to improve communication and behavior in their child with autism.

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Resources such as the National Autistic Society ( and the Autism Society of America ( can provide support and guidance for parents of children with autism.

1. Autism Speaks: A leading autism science and advocacy organization that offers a wide range of resources and information for families and individuals affected by autism (

2. National Autism Association (NAA): This non-profit organization provides support, education, and advocacy for individuals with autism and their families. The NAA also focuses on issues such as safety, research, and treatment and offers a variety of resources, such as a helpline, a directory of local chapters, and online support groups (

3. The Autism Science Foundation: This organization focuses on funding and promoting autism research and also provides information and resources for families and individuals affected by autism (

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